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The most basic and essential attribute of an Islamic marriage is the common faith that binds the couple.
Since Islam is a way of life and not just a religion confined to weekly worship it becomes an integral part
of a Muslim's life. It is highly recommended that faith play an important role in the developing a loving
relationship.
For example, as the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said, that when a husband feeds
his wife, he gets a reward for this act and Allah increases the bond of love between them. So when we love
each other for the sake of Allah we actually end up increasing our faith.
An Islamic certificate of marriage shall be issued to the couple upon completion.
iiBoston will provide a divorce according to Islamic law if a couple already acquires a civil divorce.
Counseling may be required at the discretion of the Imam. An Islamic certificate of divorce shall be
properly issued to the couple. Other cases shall be discussed separately.
Divorce is discouraged by Islam and should only be sought as a last resort.
Sadly, divorce cases among American Muslims have begun to increase in our court systems. Many judges are
unfamiliar with but have the desire to learn about Islamic rules of divorce. Imam Eid in many cases testified before
judges to explain these areas, especially when, mahr (dowry), child custody (hadaanah), and spousal support are
involved.
iiBoston has no authority to grant a civil divorce. A civil divorce is granted only under the authority of the court.
However, the Institute will certify a legally granted civil divorce to be recognized according to Islamic law.
Couples planning for a divorce can settle the details of the divorce in an Islamic atmosphere, and later go to court
with an agreement to be certified by the judge.
iiBoston provides full arrangements for washing (ghusl), shrowding (kafan), Janaazah prayer, and burial (al-Dafin)
Ghusl
Ghusl is an Arabic term referring to the full ablution (ritual washing) required in Islami in order to enter a state of purity before
performing certain rituals.
Kafan
The body of the deceased will be wrapped in sheets of clean, white cloth (called the kafan).
Janazah Prayer
The funeral prayers (Salat al-Janazah). The funeral prayer is similar in structure
to the five daily prayers, with a few variations. For example, there is no bowing or prostration, and the entire
prayer is said silently but for a few words.
iiBoston can help manage your Will applying Islamic laws of Inheritance.
The Islamic will is called al-Wasiyyah. A will is a transaction which comes into operation after the testator’s
death. The will is executed after payment of funeral expenses and any outstanding debts. The one who makes a
will (Wasiyya) is called a testator (al-Musi). the one on whose behalf a will is made is generally referred to
as a "legatee" or "testatee" (al-Musa Lahu).
The importance of the Islamic will (wasiyya) is clear from the following two hadith:
- "It is the duty of a Muslim who has anything to bequest not to let two nights pass without writing a will about it." (Sahih al-Bukhari)
- "A man may do good deeds for seventy years but if he acts unjustly when he leaves his last testament, the wickedness of his deed will be sealed upon him, and he will enter the Fire. If, (on the other hand), a man acts wickedly for seventy years but is just in his last will and testament, the goodness of his deed will be sealed upon him, and he will enter the Garden." (Ahmad and Ibn Majah)
The will gives the testator an opportunity to help someone (ie: a relative in need such as an orphaned
grandchild) who is not entitled to inherit from him. The will can be used to clarify
the nature of joint accounts, those living in commensality, appointment of guardian for one’s children and
so on. In countries where the intestate succession law is different from Islamic law it becomes absolutely
necessary to write a will.
Marital disputes can lead to serious consequences that can affect spouses and their children.
Some Muslim youths are not able to adjust their ability to live as American Muslims preserving the values
of their faith.
Family relations can be affected by the pressure of day-to-day activities. Dealing with these matters
early enough can bring a lasting peace and tranquility.
iiBoston counseling is available for:
- Spousal Relationships
- Parent/Child Relationships
- Emotional Problems
- Anger and Violence Issues
- And Many Other Concerns
Both individual and group settings are offered to allow optimal benefits from counseling.
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